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Entitlement

salin

March 24, 2008

Is it human nature to be indifferent to that which does not directly impact us, to ignore that which we don’t understand and to delude ourselves into believing false truths to avoid feelings of shame? Or perhaps, it is human nature to care, to empathize and display acts of compassion, but we feel helpless, do not know how to help, and as a result we feel too embarrassed to ask for direction. I hope, no in fact, I pray it is the latter. We just celebrated the 5th Anniversary of the War in Iraq. For five years we have sent our young men and women in harms way, and asked them to sacrifice their life, their liberty to protect our privileges and our pursuit of happiness. So I ask you, in the course of these five years, what have you done in return?

It is not my intent to point fingers, to invoke feelings of shame or frustration. I merely offer one perspective, and pray you continue to read. I want everyone to consider: when your home is being burglarized or you fall victim to some unfortunate crime, whom do you call? The police. Though driving down the highway the last person you want to see in your rear view mirror is a police officer, you realize their value when that which you care about is threatened, and you need protection from the “bad” that exists in this world. But mankind is not our only threat, Mother Nature poses dangers too. When you or someone you love fall ill, are in desperate need of medical attention, the five to ten minutes it takes for paramedics to arrive seem like an eternity, but they save lives everyday. Of course, we cannot forget the firemen, who risk their lives going toward the danger, to save lives and property- sentimental memories we possess. We recognize their bravery, we think it unconscionable when the budget reforms try to cut from police officers’ or firemen’s pay, yet we forget one last group of individuals that do all of the above for us at home and abroad, against domestic or foreign dangers posed to us- the men and women of our military. We know a police officer, a firemen, a paramedic, are always on duty, can always save life, then why do we forget our men and women of the military when they take off their uniform? They are still hypervigilant, they are still our guardians. So I ask why? Why do we not notice their second class treatment when the uniform comes off, why do we not scream of the unconscionable treatment of our silent, yet proud heroes?

Surely, it cannot be because you disagree with the war and thus blame the warrior. The soldier is solely performing his duty, to follow the commander in chief’s orders. If you are against the war, then you are against the politicians who declared the war, called for the war, and continue to wage the war. These politicians are voted into office by fellow Americans. Thus, if you are looking to put blame on someone for being in disagreement with our foreign policy, then blame the voters for choosing weak leaders, and blame the leaders who are abusing the use of the military by implementing bad foreign policy. However, never blame the military, the young men and woman, who trust their country will take care of them and not place them unnecessarily in harms way, while they risk everything - the comforts of home, the love of their family and friends, and their life - to keep you and me safe. They deserve our respect, they deserve to be in our thoughts everyday, and they deserve for us to fight for their rights over here as they fight for our privileges over there.

Imagine when you enter into an employment contract with your employer, where you are promised a 401K plan. Each month you invest a portion of your money into the plan, counting on the fact that when you retire, you will have that money matched by your employer and have made a nice little nest egg for yourself. Now imagine, upon your retirement, you find out you cannot get the money. The money your employer was also supposed to invest and give to you upon the fulfillment of your duties, was simply not done, and what you were promised you simply are denied. Would you not be frustrated, would you not feel betrayed, would you not feel disillusioned by the system? This is what is being done to our veterans. When they take their uniform off, when they are done serving their country, when they come home and request their benefits, they are denied the benefits they were promised in return for their service. They face an uphill battle to simply get what they were originally promised, to have their employer, the US government, fulfill their end of the deal. No veteran should be homeless, no veteran should be denied education, no veteran should be denied proper health care, and no veteran should be treated as a second class citizen by anyone. They fulfill their obligations under the contract, they do their duty when they put on their uniform and go fight, then when they come home and take that uniform off, it is time we acknowledge their courage and bravery by doing our duty, by simply holding our end of the deal. It is nothing more than the fulfillment of the contract they seek. Don’t you think it is fair you get your investment in the 401K plan back? Why do you think soldiers should simply accept being denied what they are entitled to?

Five years we have been waging this war, 4000 men and women of our military are dead, thousands more are struggling to live without limbs, with post-traumatic stress disorder, with the knowledge that “Support the Troops” is but lip service, because when they come home they are being treated as second class citizens. So I ask you, what have you done for your neighbors, your fellow American citizens, to show your support in the five years, in the last month, today?

Don’t know how to help? Here pick one of these organizations:

A. Financial donations- If you can only afford One Dollar ($1)—you will be helping. Donate $1 and get your friends to donate $1 too. You don’t feel the pinch and you just donated more than a veteran has and an amount a veteran could surely use. You don’t know who to make it out to:
1. National Veterans Foundation www.nvf.org
2. 911 Helping America
3. USO
4. DAV
5. IAVA
6. Or just google.

B. Call VA hospitals, see if they need volunteers to read to men and women of the military recovering from being wounded in action. Many lose one, two or three limbs.
1. You can find the nearest VA hostpital to you here.

C. Say thank you to soldiers when you meet them.

D. For those still serving abroad: you can go to www.anysoldier.com and click on where to send and send items we take for granted everyday (toothbrush/toothpaste/ socks/ deodorant/ hand sanitizer/ feminine hygiene products/ shaving cream/ etc…) and write a letter.

Just try, anything is better than nothing. A little goes further than you could imagine. Just do something, just don’t ignore them. They deserve more, they’ve earned more with their blood, their sweat and their silent bravery.

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Salin E.

November 25, 2008

Thanks for comments. I'm actually an attorney myself, and I'm a civilian but used to be a vet advocate.. . thus very familiar with the veterans' issues and civilians' misunderstanding or lack of knowledge of these issues. Just trying to bridge that gap. It would be insulting to say, we civilians understand what they went through, how could we, but it is unconscionable to not be compassionate and attempt to get to know the person, the friend, the loved one who returns from war. It would be inhuman to not be phased by war...

Mike S.

November 25, 2008

Your right, these are all amazing organizations and in the spirit of the giving season maybe people should think about giving their time or funds. But, it should never be difficult to get what is promised, if you fought your battles on the line there is no need for an up hill battle at home. Thank you for your wonderful post. Mike DS, Veterans Law Group, legal help for veterans

Charles C.

November 18, 2008

I have a "catch 22" situation which is totally frustrating my family and there doesn't seem to be any solution in sight. My father, a 93-year-old WWII veteran, is suffering from Alzheimer's and is in a secure nursing home facility. His prescription meds cost him (us) over $575 each month. He was approved almost two years ago (prior to having to go into the nursing home) for VA meds which we was able to get delivered to his former assisted living facility. His meds were mailed to him each 90 days and we paid the VA for them.

This arrangement has been ruined by regulations which supposedly apply to all nursing homes. They can only accept medications in "unit dose" amounts, but the VA provides them only in 90-day doses.

So, a WWII veteran who is BY LAW qualified to receive medications from the VA who, through no fault of his own, can't travel 110 miles to the VA facility, can't get hie meds because of a "disconnect between federal/state regulations pertaining to nursing homes and VA policy on providing meds.

Thus, his family gets stuck with a $575 monthly bill. People who are in this country illegally can (and do) receive free medical care (including medications). But a man who 65 years ago helped save our country from annihilation? No, the system can't "bend" for him!

Anyone knowing how we might get this resolved -- please post it here.

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October 30, 2008

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Erin S.

September 19, 2008

Salin,
Please forgive us. You're exactly right - and I'll speak for myself - Idon't know what to do when I see a soldier. I do now...I came across this website because I'm doing a research project on the state of healthcare for veterans. I've teared up multiple times and wish I could do something to make a difference - a real difference.
I will make a conscious effort from now on to thank soldiers I see - I live in Colorado Springs near Fort Carson so I see many. I have saved your letter to look back to if I forget other suggestions and I will pass this letter on to family and friends.
Thank you for your service and God Bless you,
Erin

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